Ice-breaking

Buzz.....This blogger has been hibernating too long...

Some people did miss my aimless ramblings. So here is a post dedicated to all those sweet souls who spent their time to cheer me up and woke up the dejected writer in me to sharpen the pencil(err..keyboard?)again... These 3 months have really whizzed past giving me no time to stop and reflect. Maybe its time for me to do that..
I have learnt alot of things about life particularly about people and relationships in the past few months. I thought I could share a bit of the wisdom I gathered, but if you find this naive and stupid, just remind yourself that I am still a kid growing up.
Its was around three months back(some time after my last post) when I had enough of thinking about school days, that I cried ENOUGH!...Enough of pretending to be indifferent to the cold war that existed in my class...Now if you are wondering what this cold war was all about, it was the same old hostility between the guys and girls...Silly but so many of us face this in our classes and workplaces even in this era of equality among the sexes...Boys try to dominate and girls try to act smart and this results in a barrier that separates their worlds and prevents any positive flow of thoughts and ideas...To be honest, my life in class at that time was rather boring and I was kinda starting to regretting my decision for having joined my college..
I wanted to make a change but didn't know where to start...God certainly helps you are really determined..The help came through my school mate(incidentally my college mate too) whose friend was a guy in my class...So I got this guy's number and we started a casual sms chat...I was surprised to find out that we had so many things in common(including our moon sign, star..he he he..)... and there we were, great friends in just a couple of messages...We ended up talking about things as if we had known each other for ages...
I heard from him about a couple of guys who had a grudge against me in class...I decided to talk this out to the concerned guys the next day..My idea was ridiculed by the others and my close friend infact warned me to stay from them...But then I moved forward(this created alot of friction between me and my close friend in class)..I was contemplating on the choice of words but my smile worked much better...Again the ice was broken and I had new friends..
My friend organized a meet in the canteen and an open invitation was thrown to the entire class. It was the first of its kind..we surprised the guys by inviting them and they surprised us by turning up..There were 10 of us..6 guys and 4 girls..(my class strength is around 42)..The meet turned out to be a huge success as we had maximum fun...This was followed by a game in class(thanks to our chemistry lecturer for having been absent)..These were major ice breakers..
Three months have passed and we've had so much fun that looking at the last one week of our life together as a class(we will have to move to our depts. next year), we cant help but wonder how fast time flies..Classes are no longer boring, college rocks..to be more precise I-section rocks! We've treats and meets to look forward to, games to play, fun activities to do and surprises to plan ..There were many lunches and high teas we've had and the strength kept increasing steadily.. Our class was the only class to form a team and rock our intra-coll culturals..Our class won the maximum number of prizes(almost everyone won!)..We conducted a mock award ceremony and we are planning for a really good farewell party..We trust each other and we know we can always look back at these three months to cheer us up...Our only regret was that despite us being together for nearly a year, we became close only in the last three months...
There were some great truths I realized...
Its never too late to make friends.
Never judge people before you actually get to know them.
Everyone is good...Its just your outlook that varies..
To love life...you need to love the people around you ..and to love the people around you need to love yourself..
Never hesitate to break the ice...
It would never hurt to say a sorry even though there is no mistake on your part, if it could help someone feel better..
Everyone has different ways of making a relationship work...So be yourself and respect the other person's methods(though they are pathetic at times)
And when I feel lost and lonely(I do somtimes) I can remind myself that there are people out there whom I've not met so far, waiting to get to know me and somewhere there is a soul whose life would be changed if I step into it...